New Partner

Hi, I live with an old women much elder than me. She's in her late 80's. She insists on having anal sex which I have never attempted before. What is your advice to me? Can i go ahead?

That is a personal choice

I had sex and he was very rough during foreplay. And scratched my vagina. It's itchy now. I had some clear mucus and tiny white discharge in vagina. What could it be?

The irritation may have caused a slight infection or overgrowth of yeast .  You can try soaking in a warm tub (no soaps or irritants).  If it is still bothering you please schedule an appointment with your health care provider or with Corner Health (734-484-3600)

I’m a male of the age of 21. A girl asked me for unprotected sex and I did I ejaculated inside of her and informed her of this she said it would be okay. Unfortunately me being drunk I didn’t ask for her contact information or if she was doing any form of birth control how worried should I be?

Unprotected sex can lead to unplanned pregnancy. 

From the information provided it is unclear if she uses any type of birth control which would  prevent unplanned pregnancy.

You may also consider getting tested for sexually transmitted infections.

You can schedule an appointment at Corner Health. 734 484-3600

I just lost my virginity yesterday and I bled A LOT during sex it wasn't really painful there was just a lot of blood. I've only had some light spotting since. I know it's normal to bleed your first time it just seemed like a lot of blood. Should I be worried? And will I bleed again the second time?

It is normal to have bleeding when someone loses their virginity.  If the bleeding continues and it is not a normal period you should talk to your primary health care provider.  

You may have some bleeding the next time you have sex.  

If you have questions about &/or need contraception (birth control) please schedule an appointment at Corner health or with your health care provider 

So a friend of mine and I experimented a little, he never penetrated, we did do oral, and he tried to do anal, and he said he finished on my back however I don't know if that's true, I'm just worried I possibly might be pregnant. That was my first time doing something like that. It's been about 4 weeks, and I got my period, in fact the first 2 days I was heavy and then I started having the brown spots appear on my pad, i normally last about 6-7 days, and this worries me. I haven't had any symptoms other than the irregular period. Should I take a pregnancy test?

In order to get pregnant the semen/sperm has to come in contact with the egg in the fallopian tube.  It has to enter via the vagina. 

If you have had a period then it is unlikely you are pregnant. 

If you are concerned, please schedule an appointment at Corner or with our health care provider.

My baby mother due date was oct 4 2016 and i was locked up November 2015 and came home January 21 2016. By looking at her due date am i the child father? And is it possible she had sex with someone else while i was locked up?

It is obviously difficult to answer those questions but given those dates it is certainly possible that you are the father.

You would need to get a paternity test to know for sure.

Idk if I have anything but someones sister told me that I had something, she didn’t say what exactly. We was in a argument, but I’ve had sexual interactions with other females before the sister had told me anything. I told the girls they got checked and there’s nothing wrong with em and me my stomach has been upset for like 2 weeks now but I’m also an anxiety person so I’m just confused and I feel like it’s gone kill me and my girlfriend and I’m scared??

It is difficult to know what is going on from what you describe.  Please schedule an appointment with your primary care provider or Corner health center to discuss the situation further and get any necessary testing and treatment. 

On the last 6 months I had sex with my ex boyfriend and now with my new boyfriend,we are really careful and are on birth control, I want to know if we should take any tests to make sure we are healthy concerning our sex life and also me as a woman what tests should I take just to be sure.

You and your new boyfriend should schedule appointments to both be tested for STIs.  Testing includes urine test for gonorrhea and Chlamydia and blood test for HIV, syphillis and hepatitis.  Using condoms will prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections. 

I want to start having sex, with a guy I just met. I don't know him very well. What are the question I should ask him and what steps should I take to not get pregnant?

Before starting a sexual relationship with a new partner, it is smart to ask to see their recent test results for sexually transmitted infections. The most common infections we see at Corner are gonorrhea and chlamydia, and can be run through a simple urine test.

To avoid pregnancy, we recommend chosing a reliable method of birth control and also using condoms for STI protection.  The Corner offers several long acting, reversable contraception options including Nexplanon (the implant that goes in your arm) and IUD's. 

If you have more questions or concerns you and your new partner can come in to Corner and we can talk more about your options.

 


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