I m 20 years old. I have ovarian cysts but very few. Can i masturbate after some 20 odd days and when i ejaculate there is a pain in my ovary mild for few minutes. what does it mean and what should i do?

More information is needed to figure out what the pain could be from.  Many women experience ovarian pain when they ovulate. About 2 weeks after the period starts. Please schedule an appointment at Corner Heath or with your health care provider  for further evaluation of your pain.

My vaginal opening has a permanent gaping hole and the insides can be seen this is due to an active sexual life. I am 20 years old and started having sex when I was 18. Two fingers stimulation feels like nothing and orgasming is difficult. I feel super conscious that I may have become loose. What should I do?

I would recommend you schedule an appointment with a gynecologist for a full examination. 

I am an excessive masturbator.. How to get rid of masturbation? Please help me.

If there is a behavior that you would like to change I recommend you schedule an appointment with a therapist who does CBT- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. 

It will help you explore ways to change behaviors.

You can google CBT therapy in the area where you live or ask your primary care provider for a recommendation on a therapist. 

Is it normal that every time I stop having sex for more than a week, the next time I have a light bleeding not red but more like a pinky color even when we are in the foreplay and introduces his fingers in my vagina that kind of pinky light "discharge" appears does that could mean anything serious? Can I do something about it ?

Your problem may be that you do not have enough vaginal lubrication.  Try using a water-based vaginal lubricant which you can get at the drug store or online.    If you do not find that it helps your situation please schedule an appointment with your primary care provider or at Corner health center. 

I have a vagina and when I was younger I started masturbating with an electric toothbrush. Now that I'm older I've bought a few vibrators and none of them work for me like the toothbrush? This is a stupid question but is it possible I've programmed myself so the only thing that works is that dumb toothbrush? What about having sex with other people? Am i desensitized?

That is a complicated question and I would recommend you speak with a gynecologist or sex therapist/counselor to get more information.  

I am having troubles with masturbating, it seems like whenever i try to masturbate i don't like it, like i don't feel any satisfaction to it and i know for sure i'm doing it right and i want to know why i don't like masturbating?

There are many things that can affect a person's sexual being; sexual pleasure etc.    Physical and emotional, developmental.  It can be helpful to discuss this with your primary care provider or schedule an appointment at Corner Health Center.  

I've noticed I have small bumps located on my bartholin gland, they aren't pus filled or anything, and they're the same color as my vaginia. I've never had sex but I do masturbate( I wash my hands before ), but I have had a UTI before from being fingered from someone else. Should I be worried about these bumps or is there any thing I can do to make them go away?

It is difficult to know what the bumps are without seeing them.  They may be from irritation.  You can schedule an appointment to have them assessed.  

I recently found out I have chlamydia. I have yet to be treated. But if I masturbate and don't wash my hands right after, can it still be spread to someone?

If the organism is alive it can be spread.

You need to get treated before the infection gets worse and spreads to others. 

I recently did anal masturbation (solo) buy using an object to go into my anus. After said situation, I realized I was bleeding and am a little sore. I was wondering if I am at risk to HIV now, can you help me? (I am a male)

If the object used had not been in contact with anyone else then you are not at risk of HIV.  HIV is transmitted via body fluids, so if the object was not in contact with anyone else's body fluid there is no risk. 

Sounds like you may have a rectal tear.  If your symptoms do not go away , please schedule an appointment at Corner Health or with your own health care provider.

For a while now, before my period, I have sharp vaginal pains for a few seconds. I usually always have some kind of pain involving my vagina before my period. I don't remember when I first started having them though. Since I have started using tampons, there has been a discomfort while trying to put it up there. It's only while I'm sliding it up too. It happens too when I try to finger myself. The discomfort is only around either my tampon or finger. I haven't talked to a gynecologist yet because I don't have one yet (I'm only fourteen so I can't get one myself). I talked to my mom about it and she thought I was putting my tampons in wrong-- which I know I'm not. I don't know if this is important but I wanted to mention them just in case that ovarian cysts, UTIs, and (I believe) endometriosis are common in my family. Should I be worried?

I'm sorry that you have to deal with this discomfort! While lower abdominal pain is normal a few days before and during one's period from uterine cramps, that doesn't sound like what you are experiencing. Additionally, ovarian cysts and endometriosis typically do not cause the symptoms you are describing, but UTIs can cause itchy and discomfort.

I would encourage you to see a healthcare provider to receive an examination and to determine what may be causing these symptoms so that you don't have to continue to have this discomfort. You are more than welcome to come to The Corner to see us for a gynecologist visit; we see patients ages 12-25! You can always contact us to schedule an appointment. 

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