Unprotected Sex

Hello, I am a 21-year-old woman and I have a few questions about sex. When should I have sex? A few days or weeks before my period, or right after my period is finished? Is it okay if I can have sex without my partner not using a condom? What are the chances of getting sexual transmitted diseases?

Anytime you have penis-vagina sex without the use of birth control you are putting yourself at risk for unplanned pregnancy unless you are aware of the exact time of ovulation which is very difficult to know. 

Anytime you have sex without a condom you are putting yourself at risk for a sexually transmitted infecton unless you absolutely know that your partner does not have an sexually transmitted infection. 

Please schedule an appointment with your primary care provider or at Corner health center to have further discussion about these important questions. 

I’m a male of the age of 21. A girl asked me for unprotected sex and I did I ejaculated inside of her and informed her of this she said it would be okay. Unfortunately me being drunk I didn’t ask for her contact information or if she was doing any form of birth control how worried should I be?

Unprotected sex can lead to unplanned pregnancy. 

From the information provided it is unclear if she uses any type of birth control which would  prevent unplanned pregnancy.

You may also consider getting tested for sexually transmitted infections.

You can schedule an appointment at Corner Health. 734 484-3600

I was asked to take azithromycin pills to cure my Chlamydia. Is it cured within the 7 days I took it or do I have to wait 2 weeks to have sexual contact with someone again?

It takes 7 days to cure the infection.  Also it needs to be 7 days after your partner was treated or you will be one reinfected.  Condom use will prevent the transmission of sexually transmitted infections

My period is 2 days late. I'm having a few cramps, white discharge and diarrhea. I had dry sex last month. Could i be pregnant? HELP!!!

If you have had sexual intercourse without using birth control or condoms there is always a chance you could be pregnant.

There are also other reason for the symptoms you are having.  If your period is 1-2 weeks late you should check a pregnancy test   

Please schedule to come to Corner health or see your health care provider for further evaluation and testing as needed.  

I'm really afraid,my boyfriend and I were having oral sex and fooling around, after that we had anal without a condom and he came on my butthole, should I be worried about stds or any disease if it just happen once, what checkups should I do?

Having sexual intercourse without a condom can put you at risk for STIs.  

You can schedule an appointment at Corner health 734-484-3600 or with your health care provider to be tested.  Be sure to explain that you need to have rectal swab testing.

I have a few questions....Its been about 12 weeks since my last "sexual " encounter, but he never penetrated, he just finished on my back, but I was worried that maybe his cum dripped down my back and somehow managed to go into my vagina... is that possible??? I've had 2 regular periods since, but now I believe I might be one weeks late, I forgot when I finished my last period. If I don't get my period by September, should I be concerned that I might be pregnant??? What are some signs or symptoms I should be looking out for??? And should I take a pregnancy test??? Since that week that me and my friend were together, I haven't been able to get that thought out of my head that I may be pregnant..I've tried talking to the guy about it but he tells me not to worry, that I'm not pregnant but I don't know I can't relax.... Please help calm my nerves or help me in what I should do next?? Thank you for your time!

In order for pregnancy to occur a sperm has to enter the vagina and penetrate an egg in the fallopian tube. From the scenario you describe this sounds unlikely.

Periods can become irregular for a number of reasons including stress, (worrying about pregnancy) changes in the environment, medications. 

If you have had 2 regular periods and no sexual activity then there is little chance you are pregnant. 

Most likely you will get a period soon.  If it would help you to stop worrying you can do a pregnancy test.  You can buy one at the drugstore or schedule an appointment at Corner health or with your primary care provider. 

Am I pregnant? Here’s a timeline of what I have been experiencing, I keep track of all this in my period tracking app. I don't take birth control, and I do not have symptoms of STDs. No burning, itching, or smells. We depend on the pull out method, I scheduled an appointment at the end of this week to wait it out..I just hope someone else can relate??? AUGUST 3rd- intimate (unprotected) AUGUST 4th- I took a plan B AUGUST 6th- intimate (unprotected) AUGUST 6th- that night after sex my period came on AUGUST 6th-11th- PERIOD AUGUST 12th- intimate (unprotected) AUGUST 15th- intimate (unprotected) AUGUST 17th- I woke up with pink blood spot, it then got darker during the day, it turned brown, now it is a red spot—literally. I panicked because I had period 5 days ago! I’ve been on google for hours... We were probably intimate between the 12th and 15th...I'm just anxious, it will be my first pregnancy. I am 20 years old so I am having mixed emotions....any clue on what I should do?

In order for a pregnancy to occur a sperm needs to come in contact with an egg.  It is difficult to know when you ovulate (release an egg) unless you are tracking it.  Most women ovulate sometime between days 11 and 17.  (Day 1 is the first day of your period).

When you take Plan B it can adjust your hormone schedule and make your periods irregular. 

So it is difficult to know why you have had irregular spotting.

Come in for your scheduled appointment. 

Also you may want to discuss reliable methods of birth control including the LARC's (Long-Acting Reversable Contraceptives) to prevent this anxiety in the future. 

So its been about 10 weeks since my friend and I fooled around a bit. He never penetrated. And since that time I've had my period regularly same duration and flow size and am actually was supposed to start last week, but I still haven't started, is it possible I'm pregnant, if not what could be the reason why I haven't started yet? I'm a healthy 18 year old female and I've always started regularly but this time I'm late... Please help

From what you describe it is very unlikely that you are pregnant.  In order to get pregnant a sperm has to come in contact with an egg.  Stress and other changes can effect your hormones which can effect the timing of your period.  If your period is 2 weeks late it is recommended that you get a pregnancy test.  You can come to Corner or see you primary care provider.

If you have sex and your boyfriend cums in you and a day later you start your period could you still possibly be pregnant? Even if there's some blood clotting during your period. I normally bleed heavy but this is light and there are some blood clouts when I pee I just wanna know if I could still possibly be pregnant

In order for a pregnancy to occur a sperm must come in contact with an egg. 

It sounds like you were at a time in your cycle where there would not be an egg for the sperm to come in contact with. (fertilization).

If you have any concerns or symptoms of pregnancy please schedule an appointment at Corner or with your primary care provider. 

 

In addition please schedule an appointment to discuss what type of birth control would be good for you to use to prevent unplanned pregnancy. 

So a friend of mine and I experimented a little, he never penetrated, we did do oral, and he tried to do anal, and he said he finished on my back however I don't know if that's true, I'm just worried I possibly might be pregnant. That was my first time doing something like that. It's been about 4 weeks, and I got my period, in fact the first 2 days I was heavy and then I started having the brown spots appear on my pad, i normally last about 6-7 days, and this worries me. I haven't had any symptoms other than the irregular period. Should I take a pregnancy test?

In order to get pregnant the semen/sperm has to come in contact with the egg in the fallopian tube.  It has to enter via the vagina. 

If you have had a period then it is unlikely you are pregnant. 

If you are concerned, please schedule an appointment at Corner or with our health care provider.


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